Only God

Vol. 16 No. 45 | November 11, 2013

She was born into the family of friends from our early days of marriage on November 10. Although it was from a distance we celebrated her birth. Who could have imagined the blessing she would be thirty years later as we, through the creativity and craftiness of our son, celebrated her 30th birthday?

Only the irresistible God who loves to surprise and amaze us could have devised such a beautiful and elaborate plan.

Only God could bring a little blond curly-haired girl into my world and let us find a connection at a very young age. Only God could know that those hugs we shared all those years ago would continue throughout our lives. He must have been smiling as He saw those smiles on our faces back then and as the smiles continue today.

Only God could orchestrate a plan that would allow our families to stay in touch through the years even though we have lived many miles apart. Through the occasional short visits and photos on our refrigerator we watched her grow. Only God could have built a childhood friendship between her and our son that would later blossom into a beautiful love story and lead to marriage.

Only God could put our family in a situation where we would become friends with some of her relatives that would bring her into our city and at our football game. Only God could prompt her to leave her seat with her family and join our family in the bleachers. Only God could prompt me to ask her, “What are your plans for next summer?” Only God could open the doors for her to come to work as a youth intern with our teens (including my daughter) and live in our house…for two summers. Only God could know that a sister-like relationship would develop between the two of them and we would feel like we had gained another daughter. Only God could use that convenient time to reignite conversations between Bethany and our son. Conversations that would eventually lead to deeper romance, dating, an engagement, and to date a five-year-plus marriage. Only God could know how much she would come to mean to our family.

Only God could know that this little curly-haired girl and this little boy of mine would one day bring a beautiful little curly-haired granddaughter into our lives who would bless us with more smiles, laughter, and an innocent sweetness that only God can plant in a human heart. That same innocent sweetness that was earlier planted in the hearts of her parents.

Only God could know know that thirty years after she was born her family and many of her friends would gather in Brooklyn, New York to help celebrate her 30th birthday.

Only God could know all these things long before any of us ever dreamed they could of our family together into such an amazing mosaic.

Only God. Only because that is the kind of God He is.

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. (Ephesians 3:20-21)

Happy Birthday Bethany! Only God could know how much we love you.

Tom

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