Vol. 20 No. 43 | October 29, 2018
You see the cleaning lady in the hall every day. While you’re gone, she comes into your office, empties the trash, straightens everything up, and vacuums. You never worry if it will get done, or even think about it. Because it always does, because she is dedicated to her job and needs the money. Have you ever told her you
Your neighbor keeps his yard well-manicured. When you are away, he keeps an eye on things. He is a quiet man who goes about his life with kindness and gentleness. Have you ever told him you appreciate him and enjoy being his neighbor?
Almost every time you go to the grocery store, you have the same woman check you out at the register. She is always friendly, sweet to your children, and has a wonderful smile. Have you ever told her how much she brightens your day?
There is an older gentleman who sits near you at church. He is always there and always alone. You learn that he leaves immediately after service to go visit his wife. She has Alzheimer’s Disease and hasn’t recognized him in two years. But he still goes to see her and help her eat lunch. Have you ever shared how much you appreciate him honoring the commitment he made to his wife…in sickness and health, for better or worse?
We intersect with dozens of people every day. Some are memorable interactions, others we hardly notice, but both give us an opportunity to share an encouraging word or express our appreciation. Too often, we don’t take the time to say what we are thinking because we are in a hurry or afraid we might sound silly.
With very little effort, we can change the atmosphere of a room, our workplace, the dinner table, or the coffee shop. We don’t have to go to a lot of trouble, just a simple, “I really appreciate the way you live your life”, or, “thank you for what you do and how you do it with such joy”, or, “I really want you to know that working with you is a pleasure,” Or even just a sincere, “Thank you.”
Try to remember how it made you feel the last time someone expressed their appreciation for you. You were surprised. You didn’t realize they noticed. You felt a little more alive and … appreciated.
In the words of Jesus (and paraphrased by the late Eugene Peterson):
“Here is a simple, rule-of-thumb guide for behavior: Ask yourself what you want people to do for you, then grab the initiative and do it for them. Add up God’s Law and Prophets and this is what you get.”
By the way, I appreciate you taking the time to read these words.
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