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March 1 – Vol. 30 No. 08

March 1, 1953

What were you doing seventy-three years ago today?

Many of you were not alive, and you who were had no idea, or interest in the fact that in the wee hours of the morning in Hope, Arkansas, I took my first breath. At least that is what I assume from my knowledge of childbirth. 

I’m not writing about my 73^rd birthday, so you will send me a gift. But if you insist, I will gladly supply you with my Venmo account information.

I am thinking of March 1, 1953, and how grateful I am that, shortly after that day, my mother (probably before) began telling me the story of Jesus and what it means to be part of His family. From that day forward, I learned from the words my mother spoke to and into me, from the life she and the examples of following Jesus most of the rest of my family lived in front of me. 

I am grateful that my mother loved the Lord and loved me enough same desire in her children to do the same.

March 1, 1973, is a day of celebration, not so much for me as for the heritage of faith that began when my mother gave birth to me 73 years ago. 

I love you.

Tom

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February 22 – Vol. 30 No. 07

A Living Sacrifice

“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.” (Romans 12:1, NIV)

What if we, as Eugene Peterson said in The Message, “Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering.”

At times in my life, I have spent many hours trying to determine what the Lord wants me to do. As a young adult, but not just as a young adult, I often prayed, “Lord, do You want me to do with my life?” “Lord, what is Your will for my life?” I have agonized over that question. 

I have counseled countless people as they have tried to determine the Lord’s will for their lives. “Lord, where do you want me to go to college, what do You want me do for a career, do You want me to be married or remain single?” 

When I have faced ministry changes, health decisions, and what to do in the second and now third seasons of my life, I have sought God and asked Him to show me His will for my life. He has provided wisdom, and I’ve tried to follow His leading. He has guided me through all those decisions and given me the strength to do whatever I’ve chosen. 

His response has always been the same. “Tom, love me with your whole heart and give me your life as a living sacrifice, and do whatever you choose. I will bless you and be with you wherever you go. If you choose to serve me as a minister, counselor, writer, teacher, full-time parent, or in the medical field, I will be with you. You are likely to face struggles and trials no matter what you do, but I’ll be with you, and together we’ll get through them. Don’t be afraid of making a mistake, or two, or many, just live a good life that brings glory to our Father. If you forget, get confused, or get off track, remember my words, start over if you need to, and keep following me. You will be fine. I love you whatever you do. 

Colossians 3:17, “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”

Colossians 3:23-24, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, 24 since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”

“He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” (Mic 6:8, NIV)

“Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering.” Live confidently and know you are doing the will of God.

I love you.

Tom

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February 15 – Vol. 30 No. 06

Fix Your Attention on God

A lot is going on in the world these days. Surprise! I bet you did not know that. We wonder what is going on in the world. With a simple push of a button, you can receive multiple suggestions about who you should be and how you should live your life. There are days when I am overwhelmed by the life-choice proposals. 

Paul spent the first eleven chapters of Romans explaining that the most important decision in life is our response to the gospel of Jesus Christ. Then, in the first 2 verses of Chapter 12, he explains how and why we should make that decision. 

“So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you and respond quickly. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.” (Eugene H. Peterson, The Message: The Bible in Contemporary Language (Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress, 2005), Ro 12:1–2.)

First, fix your eyes on God. Considering all that God has done for us, keep your eyes on Him and give Him your full attention and energy. Let His work and the gift of His Son for our salvation consume us. (This sounds a little like Hebrews 12.) Then, He explains why.

Fixing our attention on God’s grace and mercy can help clear our thinking and drown out other voices and options.

Fixing our attention on God can help us recognize when we become too comfortable with the culture we live in. It is easy for us to fall into old habits and drift into new ones. 

Fixing our attention on God can help us readily understand what He wants from us and respond quickly. Maybe it is not as difficult as we think. 

As we go through the days ahead, let’s remember to intentionally fix our attention on God, trusting that His guidance brings clarity and peace amidst the noise and distractions of life. By keeping our focus on Him, we allow His love and wisdom to shape our decisions and nurture our hearts. May you find encouragement and strength as you embrace this perspective throughout the week.

I love you.

Tom

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February 8 – Vol. 30 No. 05

Not How I Planned It

The snow did not come as predicted. The article was not finished. The medical test results were not as clear as we had hoped. The marriage did not survive. The child chose a different path than what we hoped, then moved back home. You said things or did something that you wish you could take back. Your candidate did not win. The dream job turned out to be a nightmare. We lost the game. The friendship turned toxic. The church was cold and full of cliques.

That’s not how I planned it.

Disappointment. David Jeremiah describes disappointment as “an unavoidable part of living—whether it stems from others’ failures or your own.” To avoid it, we will have to withdraw from living. Most will agree there are better options. Life does not always go according to our plans, so how do we deal with it? 

Try to see the disappointment from God’s perspective. He is in control, whether it seems that way or not. Spend time expressing your sadness and frustration. He is aware of it and understands it. Ask for His help in dealing with the disappointment, and accept it when it comes. That will not take all the pain away, but it prevents you from getting sidetracked from your sense of purpose. 

Ask God what He wants you to learn from the experience. There’s always something to learn. God’s lesson may be as simple and difficult as, “Keep trusting Me.” 

Move on. Grieve the loss, but don’t wallow in your grief longer than you need to. Acknowledge it and do what you need to do – seek help, be honest with your grief – but don’t quit. Search for another church. Be open to new relationships. Ask for forgiveness. Offer forgiveness. Keep living a good life. 

I try to be hopeful. If the weather forecaster says it’s going to snow (or, with our dry conditions, rain), I get my hopes up. When it does not happen, I get disappointed. Suppose someone makes a promise, I tend to believe them. If they fail to keep the promise, I am disappointed, sometimes angry, and always sad. When I mess up, I am disappointed, often angry, and always sad.

Life is not always going to go as we plan or hope. I have learned that life’s disappointments are only if I get bitter and quit trying to learn from them and stop trying to improve the life God wants me to live. 

“The thief (maybe disappointment) comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” (John 10:10, NIV)

Keep living the full life God has planned for you. 

I love you.

Tom

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January 25 – Vol. 30 No. 04

The Anniversary

On Friday, Kim and I celebrated fifty years of marriage (see photos on my Facebook page). We celebrated by enjoying two wonderful meals and a night in a lovely hotel on the River Walk in San Antonio, Texas. We had a wonderful wedding fifty years ago, and a wonderful time remembering the event and the people who have loved and supported us through the last five decades.

During the weekend, we reminisced about the songs, the wedding day, the honeymoon in Memphis and Gatlinburg, and our first days of adjusting to life as a married couple. We shared memories of places we’ve lived, trips we’ve taken, our children, their children, and friends who have blessed us along our journey. 

We talked about the changes we have experienced since we first got married. We did not have cell phones when we got married. Nor did we imagine we would ever have cell phones. We also never imagined the Internet, Wi-Fi, 65-inch televisions, screens in our automobiles that would guide us to our destinations, or that we would one day celebrate our fiftieth anniversary in New Braunfels, Texas. 

When we first got married, a counselor told us we would become different people every seven years. I have no idea how one would measure those transformations, but like the world around us, we have changed significantly. Obviously, we are older. We are wiser and more mature. Hopefully, we have helped each other become more like Jesus. I pray we have encouraged others to also be more like Him. 

Our love for each other has grown deeper and stronger than we could have imagined. As we move into our sixth decade, we plan to celebrate victories, grieve our losses, forgive our failures, encourage each other to be better people, and pray for one another to grow in our relationship with the Lord. 

God has blessed us more than I can express, and I look forward to all He will do as we move forward. 

We love you.

Tom & Kim

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January 18 – Vol. 30 No. 03

He Is More

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
    neither are your ways my ways,”
declares the Lord.
“As the heavens are higher than the earth,
    so are my ways higher than your ways
    and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9)

Those words sometimes surprise me, but sometimes they do.

When I see and hear the violence and hatred in the world, I think surely the Lord disapproves of it as I do. But He seems to allow it to continue. 

When I go into rants (mainly on the inside) about the cruelty, the selfishness, and pride that exist within the leadership of world powers, I think surely the Lord must have His own times of ranting. He seems to be silent. 

When I observe the selfishness and pride in my own life, I think surely the Lord does not love me. Yet He continues to feed me, satisfy my thirst, clothe me, and allows me to speak for Him.

To say that His thoughts are not my thoughts, and His ways are higher than my ways, is an enormous understatement. 

When I think I am righteous and holy, He is more virtuous and blessed than I can even dream of. When I feel generous and forgiving, He is even more gracious and forgiving. When I pat myself on the back for being such a good person, His goodness puts me to shame.

There are times when I wish His thoughts and ways could be more like mine. When those egotistical thoughts pass, I thank Him for being the God He is, and for loving this frail, broken man that I am. 

Thank You, Lord, in this moment of quiet reflection, for reminding me of who You are and for loving me as one of Your children. 

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January 11 – Vol. 30 No. 02

Time Flies

Many people have heard the saying, “Time flies when you are having fun.” Over the years, I have realized that time seems to fly by, regardless of whether I am enjoying myself or not. Another idea often shared is that the perception that time moves quickly is a sign of old age. While I am not sure if that is true, I can certainly say that time appears to be moving so swiftly these days that I often struggle to keep pace.

Days tend to blend into one another—one day becoming the next, and before I realize it, the weekend has come and gone, only for the cycle to begin again. Over the three decades I have written and shared these Norvell Notes, my goal has been to complete and post each note by 11:00 PM CST. As the week begins, I find myself searching for the right words and wondering how to put them together. More times than I care to admit, I am still making final edits as the clock strikes 11:00 PM or even later.

We have swiftly entered 2026, a year I am not sure I ever envisioned living to see. Yet here we are. Time has flown, time is flying, and time will continue to fly. Fun or no fun. 

Let us move forward, whether times move swiftly or slowly. Let us move forward with confidence that the Lord will move with us, move along with us, and move within us. Let us move into the days, weeks, and years ahead, seeing the possibilities and leaving the past behind. One day at a time.

Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”

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January 1, 2026 – Vol. 30 No. 01

Let’s Do It Again

In the recent movie, Jay Kelly, George Clooney’s character, reflects on his life, portraying an actor near the end of his career. As he reflects on the filming of scenes, one of the crew says, “That’s a wrap.” Jay Kelly says, “Let’s do it again.” There is a tone of sadness as he realizes he can’t change the past, but he hopes for a chance to do it again.

As a year ends and another begins, and the decades continue to pile up in my life, I confess there are more times than I can count when I said those words, “let’s do it again.” I said something stupid or hurtful, and I wish I could take it back. I made a foolish decision, and I immediately wished I could do it over. 

As much as I wish I could have another chance to do it again, to make up for all the mistakes and missteps, I am grateful that, at the end of every day, week, and year, I can start over. Because of the grace and mercy of our Lord, He also says, “Let’s do that again.” 

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” (Lamentations, 3:22-23)

Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set youfree from the law of sin and death. (Romans 8:1-2)

Feeling the need to do it again. Wish you could start over. There is no better time than now. Start the new year by starting over. You can do it again.

Happy New Year. I love you, 

Tom

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December 21, 2025 – Vol. 29 No. 48

A Simple Prayer

Let us be people of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

I don’t know what else to say. 

I love you, 

Tom

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December 14, 2025 – Vol. 29 No. 47

Give and Receive

The church promotes the event as an “act of service – an opportunity to give to those in need.” We had participated before and enjoyed it, so we put our names on the list to be greeters. We were to meet a family, walk with them as they selected a coat, take a family photo, help them get a name tag, and then escort them to the dining area.

The total time, including travel, was about 90 minutes. Little did I know that this “act of service” would bring me so much more than I gave. 

I introduced myself to the mother and her two children as we headed to the coat room. The room was packed with mothers and fathers searching through the coats piled high on tables, sorted by size. I stood by with a bag to hold their coats once selected. That’s when she (the little girl) found her coat. The lady assisting her handed her a pink jacket just her size. The look on her face when she turned around to show her mom was priceless. My heart “grew three sizes that day.”

Her smile spread across her face, her eyes could not have opened any wider, and she said, “Mom, I want this one!” The smile on her mother’s face was just as big. The lump in my throat also “grew three sizes that day.”

I have long known that “it is better to give than receive” (Acts 20:35), and this experience has reminded me that often when you give, you also receive.

I love you, 

Tom

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