A Norvell Note – Page 16 – Thoughts and reflections on God, life, people, and living as a follower of Jesus.

No Words

A Norvell Note for August 16, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 32

No Words

I have no words.

I have more thoughts than I can arrange, more feelings than I can contain, and more emotions than I express.

But I have no words.

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Being Still Is Hard

A Norvell Note for August 9, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 31

Being Still Is Hard

“He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.” (Psalm 46:10, NIV)

Listen

Lord, I hear You. I know You are God. I know that during the political and worldly chaos that existed when You spoke those words, and amid the political and temporal chaos in our time, You are with us, and You are God. I’ve read these words thousands of times, and I look at the framed version of this verse that hangs on my wall almost daily. I know You are God. I know You are in control.

Lord, I hear You, and I trust You, but being still is the last thing I want to do right now.

Lord, I want to do something. I want to say something. I want to fix things. I want to take away the pain and suffering. I want to make things better. I hear You, but being still is hard right now. I suppose that’s why You want me to be still.

“Step out of the traffic! Take a long,
loving look at me, your High God,
above politics, above everything.” (Psalm 46:10, The Message)

If I’m saying and doing and fixing, then I have not stepped out of the traffic and not taking a long, loving look at You. But it feels like this: “Oh, imagine yourself in a building, up in flames being told to stand still.” (Sara Bareilles and John Legend)

I know that my power and strength come when I am still and present now. I know that when You tell me to be still, it is for my good, so I am trying to be still and keep my eyes, mind, and heart focused on You.

I’m trying, Lord, but right now, being still is hard.

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Now You Wait

A Norvell Note for August 2, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 30

Now You Wait

Now you wait.

These may be some of the least favorite words we ever say or hear.

You rush to get to your appointment; you feverishly make it just in time, only to learn that they are running behind. So, now you wait.

You have been driving all day and ready to get to your hotel when you see brake lights up ahead, and the GPS says, “There is a 25-minute delay up ahead.” Now you wait.

Your meeting begins at 10:00 AM. You shuffle your appointments to make the meeting. You and the rest of the team arrive when you learn that the person in charge is on a phone call. Now you wait.

You are in your car and headed to the airport a little to pick up your friends when you learn the flight will is late. Now you wait.

You are tired, your kids are tired and cranky, and you are all hungry. So you order your food now you wait.

Your team is winning the game, and you are ready to celebrate when there is a long delay to review a play. Now you wait.

You endure another series of grueling tests, the results go to the lab, and now you wait.

Waiting is an inevitable part of life. We wait to be seated at restaurants. We wait for calls. We wait for responses. We wait for news. We wait for the waiting to end.

Waiting is almost always a challenge. We have plans, we have hopes, and we have dreams we wait to come true. We wait for questions to be answered. We wait for answers to our prayers. Waiting can crush us if we allow it. “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.” (Proverbs 13:12)

Waiting can also remind us of our hope for seeing the goodness of the Lord.

I remain confident of this:
    I will see the goodness of the Lord
    in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord;
    be strong and take heart
    and wait for the Lord. (Psalm 27:13-14)

Waiting can assure that our hope is in the Lord, and He will renew our strength. We will eventually run and not go weary, and we will walk and not be faint.

Do you not know?
    Have you not heard?
The Lord is the everlasting God,
    the Creator of the ends of the earth.
He will not grow tired or weary,
    and his understanding no one can fathom.
²⁹He gives strength to the weary
    and increases the power of the weak.
³⁰Even youths grow tired and weary,
    and young men stumble and fall;
³¹but those who hope (wait) in the Lord
    will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
    they will run and not grow weary,
    they will walk and not be faint. (Isaiah 40:28-31)

Now we wait and our hope in the Lord.

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I Don’t Know How to Do This

A Norvell Note for July 26, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 29

I Don’t Know How to Do This

Lord, I don’t know how to do this.

I am confident and self-assured when facing most of life’s events, but I don’t know how to do this. I trust You, and I know that You are aware of the pain, the confusion and that I don’t know how to do this.

I know how to take deep breaths to calm my mind and soul to help prepare me for whatever might come at me during the day. I know how to spend time in the Word to help keep me focused on how I should live.

I know how to work hard, and I know when to take a break. I know how to take care of myself and, to some degree, take care of others. But, Lord, I don’t know how to do this.

I am blessed richly and humbled by the opportunities and the abilities to serve people in the name of Jesus in ways I never imagined. But this is different, and I don’t know how to do it.

I trust you when you say, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” (James 1:5)

I’m asking for wisdom, Lord, to do what I don’t know how to do.

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I Didn’t Expect This

A Norvell Note for July 19, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 28

I Didn’t Expect This

From blessings to trials, we may evaluate our lives by how we deal with the unexpected.

I didn’t expect to enjoy college so much.

I didn’t expect to fall in love.

I didn’t expect to get a call from seeing my friend at the game.

I didn’t expect to win the award.

I didn’t expect to love my children so much.

I didn’t expect this to hurt so much.

I didn’t expect the job offer.

I didn’t expect to miss my friends so much.

I didn’t expect to enjoy that movie so much.

I didn’t expect to be in so much pain after my surgery.

I didn’t expect the recovery to be so complicated and take so long.

I didn’t expect anything like this to happen to our family.

I didn’t expect people to respond with such an outpouring of love and kindness.

We must be careful when we receive an unexpected blessing that we do not believe we deserve the gift. Also, when we experience a shocking trial, we must not entertain the idea that we deserve it.

The key to dealing with the unexpected events in our lives, whether blessings or trials, is the same: with graciousness and humility.

When the unexpected is a trial of unparalleled proportions, accept them with humility and graciousness. “Humble yourself in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.” (James 4:10)

When the unexpected is a blessing of unimaginable magnitude, “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” (Lamentations 3:22-23)

We have no control over the unexpected events that come our way, but we choose how we respond to them. Remain humble. Live graciously.

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I’m Not Driving

A Norvell Note for July 12, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 27

I’m Not Driving

I’m sitting in the passenger seat today. The perspective is different in the passenger seat. When I’m not driving, I see things I usually would not see. For example, I do not recall seeing that building. I never noticed that grove of trees. When did they start construction on that corner? Has that coffee shop always been there?

When I’m not driving, I’m an observer. I go wherever the driver takes me. I can make suggestions and requests about the route, the music we listen to, and listen to music, but the driver makes those decisions. If the driver decides to stop, I stop. If the driver chooses to take a different route than I would, I go where he wants to go. So when I’m not driving, I can look at the scenery, write an article, or take a nap.

When I’m not driving, I can see many things and do a lot of things that I would because I trust the driver. The driver is in control. I’m in the passenger seat.

It is the same with life. So here are a few things I’ve learned by being a passenger.

I must trust the Driver. The Driver knows what He has a plan for me. He wants me to enjoy the view. He has so much to show me, but if I insist on driving or tell Him how to go, I may miss it. I trust that He will take care of me.

He has planned the route. He knows what’s around every corner. He knows the best places to stop along the way. He knows the dangers to avoid. It usually turns out better when I let the driver drive. I trust that he knows where we are going and how to get there.

The Driver controls the pace and the best time to arrive. He understands that I usually want to get to my destination as soon as possible. Of course, there are times when He drives slower than I prefer, and there are times when He moves faster than I like. But I trust to get me where I need to be when I need to be there.

Jesus said,” “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.”

Thomas said to him, “Lord, we don’t know where you are going, so how can we know the way?”

Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.”

The only way I know to get to where I ultimately want to go is to trust the One who knows the way, the One who is the way.

He is the Driver. I am the passenger.

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Something’s Off

A Norvell Note for July 5, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 25

Something’s Off

Something’s off.

Somedays, I get caught up in work and life responsibilities and almost forget that life has changed. Yet, even on those days, there is a strong sense that something is off.

Sometimes it is a song on my playlist or the weather, or it is a photo on my phone. Somedays, it happens when asked, “How are you?” For most of my life, my typical response to that question has been, “I’m okay.” If pushed, I’ll add, “Not great. Not bad. Just good.” That’s always worked, but not so much anymore. I catch myself pondering my answer, “Am I really, okay?”

Some people know better and ask, “Really, how are you?” I don’t mind going into more detail, but it changes the tone of the conversation, and most are don’t feel comfortable with that, so “Okay” is good enough. I’m glad.

The reality is something is off, something is not like it was, my (our) world has changed. Life is not the same and will never be the same, and I try every day to remember that it’s okay.

Most of the time, I can go about my day and do what I need to do. But when the pace slows, when I’m sitting at a traffic light or standing by a gas pump, and in my quiet moments of reading and journaling and having my morning coffee, there is no escaping the haunting reality that something is off.

Life today is not what I expected. It is not anything like I had imagined. I never asked for life to take this turn of events. But it has happened, and I am dealing with it as best as I can. There are good days. I won’t say normal days, but good days. And there are some tough days. But we go forward dealing with the day before us, doing what we can and enjoying the moment even though something’s off.

Something is off, but that’s okay.

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Enough for Today

A Norvell Note for June 28, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 24

Enough for Today

As I read 1 Corinthians 13 out loud recently, this verse stood out as a reminder of how much life seems to unfold.

Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. (1 Corinthians 13:12, NIV)

The “Now I know in part” is where I struggle.

There are times when I want to know the answers, not in part but entirely. I don’t want to wait for the knowledge or the answers to my question. I don’t want to be a know-it-all but want to know it all.

Earlier in the chapter, it says, “Love is patient.” Most of the time, I am a patient man, but there are times when I want to know how the story, and I want to know it now.

Some would say I have control issues. And I would agree to some degree. I don’t always have to be in control, but I like to know that someone is in control. I don’t always have to make the plan, but I like that there is a plan, and I like to know the plan.

It’s the “now I know in part” that gives me trouble.

But, when I can relax, reflect, and listen, I hear the Lord is saying, “I’m giving you what you need for today. That’s enough. Don’t rush into what’s next. Just live today as it comes. Any more is too much. If I give you more, it will overwhelm you. I will give you the knowledge you need when you need it. I will provide you the information you need to get through this day. Let that be enough.”

Now I know in part, I want to know more, but I will wait and trust God to give me the knowledge I need when I need it.

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A Father’s Day Unlike Any Other

A Norvell Note for June 20, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 24

A Father’s Day Unlike Any Other

For as long as I can remember, part of my Father’s Day tradition has included watching as much of the U.S. Open Golf Tournament. If I can, I watch it live, but I record it to watch it later. The championship is over, and I did watch it (at least some), but this Father’s Day is unlike any other.

I have received several notes wishing me a Happy Father’s Day and was a good day. But this was a Father’s Day unlike any other. I thought of my dad and so many men who have taught me about being a dad. I am honored to be a dad. I am grateful for the many great dads I know. A significant part of my understanding of God and the meaning of being His child comes mainly from being a dad.

I remember standing in front of a group of teenagers and adults not long after becoming a dad (almost forty years ago), telling the story of Abraham and Isaac to illustrate faith, God’s love for His children. I was rocking along until I got to the part where Abraham laid Isaac on the altar, and it hit me like a ton of bricks. In mid-sentence, I could not speak. I struggled to control my emotions. That’s how much God loves us.

Since that Saturday night, most Father’s Days had surprises, favorite foods, gifts, and emotion, but this was a Father’s Day that was unlike any other. This one was different.

Along with Happy Father’s Day wishes, I also received notes, calls, and messages reminding me how many people are praying for our family and me on this Father’s Day. Many ask, “How are you?” Like the pause in my teaching to those teenagers, I search for a response. “I’m okay.” “I’m doing as well as I can, I suppose.” “I’m not real sure.” “I’m struggling.”

Perhaps the best and most accurate answer comes from these lines in Steven Curtis Chapman’s song, Hallelujah, You Are Good, say it best.

We are standing in between

Hope and despair

Believing in Your grace

And the faith to declare

You are with us

Hallelujah

Hallelujah, You are good

So, to all the fathers, dads, stepdads, substitute dads out there, grandpas, and papas, I hope your Father’s Day was unlike any other. Remember He is with you, and He is good.

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I Need Your Words

A Norvell Note for June 14, 2021

Vol. 24 No. 23

Lord,

As You know, there are times when I don’t have words to express what is in my heart and bouncing around in my head. Now is one of those times. You know it is another in a long line of those times when I have come to you wanting to speak but find myself at a total loss for words. So, I will use Your words.

You said, “Ask, and it will be given.” I’m asking.

You said, “Knock, and it will be given.” I’m knocking.”

You said, “Seek, and you will find.” I am seeking.

You said, “Don’t worry about tomorrow.” I’m trying not to worry.

You said, “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.” I am asking.

You said, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” So I’m presenting my requests to You, God.

^“But I trust in you, O Lord; I say, ‘You are my God.’ My times are in your hands.”

Thank You for Your words that give me a voice when I have none.

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